
Media relations
The follow-up that works: how to chase a journalist without being annoying
Most pitches get no reply. The silence feels like a rejection, and it almost never is. A journalist who does not answer is usually buried, on deadline, or holding your email for a quieter week. Coverage is often won or lost in what you do next. Most founders do it badly: they chase too soon, too often, or with a bare line that gives the reporter nothing to act on. The follow-up is a skill, and it is a simple one. Here is how to get it right.
Wait, then reply in the same thread
Give it three to four working days before you follow up. Any sooner and you look anxious. The reporter has not forgotten you overnight. They have simply not gotten to it yet.
When you do write, reply inside the original thread. Do not open a fresh email with a new subject line. The thread already holds your pitch, so the journalist sees the whole story in one place instead of digging for what you sent. Force them to reconstruct the context, and most will not bother.
Keep it to two or three lines. A long second message reads as pressure. A short one reads as confidence.
Say something new every time
This is the rule that separates a welcome nudge from an annoying one. Never just poke. Give the reporter something they did not have before:
- A fresh data point: a new number, a result, a milestone you just hit.
- A development: a hire, a confirmed launch date, a partner, a customer win.
- A reason it matters this week: a tie to news that just broke, an event, a season.
The new detail gives the journalist a reason to reopen the story. It also makes your email about their work, not your wish to be covered.
Model lines are specific and short. You fill in the real figures:
- "Following up with one new number: we just passed [X] this week, up from [Y] when I first wrote."
- "Quick update: our [city] launch is now confirmed for [month], in case it fits what you cover."
Lines to cut give nothing back and ask the reporter to do the work:
- "Just checking in."
- "Did you see my email below?"
- "Any thoughts?"
- "Bumping this to the top of your inbox."
The right cadence: one nudge, maybe two
One follow-up is almost always welcome. It is normal, expected, and often the exact thing that earns the reply.
A second follow-up is the most a cold pitch should get. Send it about a week after the first, and only if you have a genuinely new angle. Not the same story said louder. A different hook, a stronger number, a reason the timing changed.
That is the ceiling: one nudge, then one more with something new. Past that, you have stopped pitching and started pestering.
Stop graciously
Two unanswered follow-ups is an answer. The reporter has seen your name three times and chosen not to reply. A third and fourth chase will not change that, and it costs you the thing worth more than this one story: the relationship.
The journalist you wear out this quarter is the one you may need next quarter, when your news is a better fit for what they cover. Spend that goodwill on one extra email and you have made a poor trade.
So close cleanly. A final, low-pressure line keeps the door open: "Completely understand if this is not for you. I will keep you posted as things develop, and I am glad to be a background source on [your sector] any time." Then stop. You leave a good last impression and a reason to open your next pitch.
An Asia note: clocks and patience
If you pitch across Asia, build the clock into your cadence. Three working days means three working days in the reporter's time zone, not yours. Singapore, Hong Kong, Jakarta, and Tokyo do not share your Monday morning, and local holidays vary widely across the region. Count their working days.
Language earns the open. A pitch and follow-up in the journalist's own language, or a clean localized version, signals respect and gets read. In many Asian markets, trust is built slowly and kept warm over time. The founder who follows up well, then waits well, is the one who gets the call when the story finally lands.
Make every follow-up count
All of this rests on knowing who you pitched, what you said, and when, so your timing is right and you never chase the same reporter twice by accident. Cites X tracks every pitch and what came of it, so each follow-up lands on the right day with something new, and your media relationships compound instead of resetting with every campaign. A cold list, worked patiently, is how you build a warm one.
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